What I think of blockbuster movies might differ from someone else. Whether they were gigantic summer hits or gained a huge following because of an over-the-top character, some movies are simply iconic. On top of that, my kids might not have any interest in such films with that label. Both of my kids (ages 11 and 12) are into exploring TV and movies within their age-rating on their own (for the most part).
There have been some movies that I’ve watched with one or both kids over the past year, which makes me extremely happy. The Hunger Games, The Lord of the Rings, Tremors, Batman Begins, and Jurassic Park have all earned time on our small screens. But there are still plenty of other movies I want to share with my kids – or at least say, “Hey, you should watch this,” if they don’t want to watch together.
So, onto the geeky parent list!
Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark
It’s a classic. Harrison Ford made you want to be an archeologist, professor, preserver of antiquities, and adventurer all in one. His charm comes from his imperfect nature, because things do not always go his way. He’s great with a whip, and although he probably classifies himself as a loner, he needs his friends along the way.
Plus, one of the best, clever scenes in all of film is in Raiders of the Lost Ark. If you know, you know, Mr. Sword Swinger. And how can we not love someone standing up to Nazis and then watching the Nazis fail. Yes, there are some gruesome scenes that aren’t appropriate for the younger kiddos in your life, but this is one movie that never gets old or tired.
Rating: PG
Release: 1981
Length: 1 hour, 55 minutes
Currently on: Pluto TV, Disney+, Paramount+
Mrs. Doubtfire
Sometimes, you just need to laugh. Yes, Robin Williams’ character is going through a tough time, but his transformation to Mrs. Doubtfire is hilarious. I could say, “Pick a Robin Williams movie and you’ll be happy” – and that would be true. Even in his other roles that strayed a bit more dramatic or darker, his presence is remarkable. For example: His lines in Good Will Hunting are phenomenal.
But we’re talking about Mrs. Doubtfire, right? Right. So, yeah, burning shirts, cream pie face masks, dancing while vacuuming… well, come on, who doesn’t dance when they do chores? I’ve caught myself several times headbanging while mowing or edging the lawn. Anyway, Robin Williams was captivating to watch and brilliantly funny, and, sometimes, laughter makes us feel so much better.
Rating: PG-13
Release: 1993
Length: 2 hours, 5 minutes
Currently on: Disney+
The Fifth Element
There’s something about this movie that has never gotten old. Is it Bruce Willis nailing the ho-hum-I-don’t-really-care-about-the-world-dying kind of attitude, but I’m going to save it anyways? Is it Chris Tucker’s charismatic attempt to bond with Willis that presents funny moments? Is it the incredible space opera performance that blends seamlessly with an action sequence where Milla Jovovich kicks butt? The answer is all of it.
Plus, Gary Oldman is brilliant – and when is he not? It’s a story where the main character hates his “cabbie” life, while ultimately deciding to do the right thing by protecting a person who literally crashes through the roof of his flying car. Doing the right thing despite the consequences – it’s a novel idea!
Rating: PG-13
Release: 1997
Length: 2 hours, 6 minutes
Currently on: TBS, TNT
The Proposal
One of the best romantic comedies and plenty of laugh-out-loud moments. About what I said before about needing a laugh: The Proposal checks that box for sure. Yes, there are a couple nearly naked scenes, but what more do you need than Betty White shouting to Sandra Bullock’s character, “Smack his ass!” Is there anything more wholesome?
Yes, that’s an unexpected thing to say, but you’re watching Betty White shine in a grandmother role, while Sandra Bullock and Ryan Reynolds display this awkward chemistry that turns into a “Wait, do we like each other?” moment. There’s plenty to chew on in this film, including the commentary of employers avoiding their horrible boss at all cost, while also showcasing that going home is not always what it’s cracked up to be.
Rating: PG-13
Release: 2009
Length: 1 hours, 48 minutes
Currently on: Hulu, Disney+
The Illusionist
This is a film where imagination is wonderfully presented. The main character is much more than a magician; he’s an artist. Eisenheim (played by Edward Norton) puts on a show unlike any other performer, but the film is much more than any slight of hand. There’s romance and a murder mystery wrapped within this mysterious main character who genuinely seems gifted with his “super powers.”
Yes, there is an intimate scene (for those with little ones), but it’s not rambunctious in its viewing; consider it gentle. Along with Norton, the cast includes Jessica Biel, Rufus Sewell, and an exceptional performance by Paul Giamatti. This film will celebrate its 20-year anniversary in 2026 – and it hasn’t gotten old in the slightest.
Rating: PG-13
Release: 2006
Length: 1 hour, 50 minutes
Currently on: Tubi, Pluto TV, Fandango at Home, The CW, The Roku Channel, Prime Video, Hulu, Disney+
The Whole Nine Yards
My kids are phenomenal with silliness, and sometimes, you need a film with a silly premise. A dentist with a spouse who hates him finds himself living next door to a contract killer. It’s this plot, along with the performances from the cast, that just has this overall ridiculous fun nature about it that can’t be replicated easily.
“You like living in Canada?” – “No, I live here with my wife.”
The charm in this movie hasn’t gotten lost after a few decades; plus, there’s some murdering that happens along the way that doesn’t make the film grim in the least. If you’re looking to introduce your older kiddos (teens) to a dark comedy, this is a good choice. The storyline is absurd in such a good way that you’ll realize you’ve watched a new favorite (if you haven’t already watched it). Yes, there is a steamy scene plopped in the middle of the movie and some nudity, but it’s R-rated for a reason; plus, all of the killing, of course.
Rating: R
Release: 2000
Length: 1 hour, 38 minutes
Currently on: Pluto TV
These are just a handful of films I want my kids to watch at some point. Whether they’re all-time blockbusters or cult classics, there’s a bit of variation in all of the films that should make them happy. What movies do you want your kids to watch, whether now or when they’re old enough? Share them with us in the comments or over on social media.
Until next time, friends, happy parenting and happy geeking.